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Three Common Mistakes In Divorce Process

By on January 21, 2012 in divorce

Divorce is usually very challenging both financially and emotionally. So much is at stake and it can be challenging setting up and maintaining a second household. The process can be a lot smoother if you avoid some of the most common mistakes many people make when getting a divorce.

1. Trying to handle a divorce without a lawyer.

Even if your case is completely uncontested, one of the biggest mistakes people make is trying to handle their divorce without a lawyer. As an experienced New York divorce attorney, Philip Milone can help guide you through the process. He can make sure your documents are drafted correctly and all the details are taken care of. Divorce involves every aspect of your life. It determines who gets what assets, what time you have with your children as well as who is responsible for any debt you may collectively owe. An experienced New York family lawyer can help make sure you come to an agreement that will work for your situation.

2. Not filing and just waiting for spouse to file.

While some people think it looks better if they are not the ones who ask for a divorce, in the end there is not really any benefit to waiting for your spouse to file for divorce. It is better to be proactive from the start than be on the defensive end. Plus if you are the plaintiff, you will get to have the first and last word in the courtroom. If you have decided divorce is the best for your situation, it is best to get started right away. We know the process will be painful, but the sooner you start it, the sooner you can conclude it,  put it behind you and continue on with your life.

3. Not changing passwords to sensitive accounts and information

A third common mistake some facing a divorce make is not changing passwords for their email, Facebook accounts, Twitter accounts, retirement accounts and any other financial or personal account. If your spouse can still access the accounts, they may obtain incriminating evidence to use against you in a divorce. It can affect the settlement and everything in your life that is important to you. Even if you think your spouse will not snoop in your accounts, emotions run high and people may do things they wouldn’t have under regular circumstances. If you are considering divorce or have filed for divorce, change your passwords and recovery information so your privacy is left intact.

If you are considering a divorce or you need the advice from an experienced Garden City divorce attorney, contact Philip S. Milone today. With more than 29 years of experience, Mr. Milone knows what issues need to be addressed and will be your advocate during this emotional time.

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Pew Study: Percentage of Married Adults Decreases

By on December 24, 2011 in divorce, marriage

The number of people who are married is at a record low and many people are waiting longer to tie the knot, according to a new study released by the Pew Research Center.

The study showed 51 percent of adults aged 18 years and older were married, which is more than a 20 percent drop from 1960. If this trend continues, it is expected the percentage of married adults will drop below 50 percent in a few years. Researchers cited an increased percentage of adults cohabiting, as well as single people and single parent households as contributing to the decrease of married households.

It is also noted that researchers think part of the decrease was, in part, due to adults delaying marriage to later ages. Research showed the average age for a first-time marriage is 26.5 years old for brides adn 28.7 years old for grooms. That is an increase in about 2 and a half years for both brides and grooms since 1990 and a six year increase for both since the 1960s.

Additionally, research showed that 72 percent of adults have been married at one time, but that is down from 85 percent since 1960s.

If you are considering a separation or divorce, you need to speak with someone who understands how to best protect your assets and your future. Contact the office of Garden City divorce lawyer, Philip S. Milone today for an initial consultation.

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